I am a librarian. I’ve been a librarian for nearly 23 years, with over 14 of those years at the Pittsfield Public Library. This library was one of the libraries I used as a kid (although I didn’t like it then). It’s close to where I grew up and it’s my second home–as it is to many people in the community. I used to be the Circulation Librarian, until a year ago when I was hired to become the director. It wasn’t a job I always wanted, but it’s a job I have become to love more than I thought possible.
On March 16th we had to close our doors to the public due to the health and safety concerns of COVID-19. Some of my staff and I cried that day because it was surreal and sad and our patrons are the lifeblood of the library. It’s not the building nor the books or films or programs. It’s the people. For a while we were still able to leave books for people in a secure location where we never saw each other (except by camera), then we did that by appointment only, and then we stopped it completely. Now tomorrow, April Fools’ Day no less, will be the last day the staff and I can go into the building. We will still be answering emails and conducting online programming and we’ll still be able to “see” and assist some of our patrons. But not all of them. So many of these folks we won’t be able to help again until we can re-open.
I’ve read a lot about grief over the past 3 years, and even in the past 2 weeks the articles about grieving what our normal once was. But I didn’t grieve quite as much because I was still going to the building where I worked. I couldn’t help as many people, but there was still a smidge of normalcy there. But tonight? Tonight I feel like I felt the evening before I went to say goodbye to my brother. Or that morning at 2am when I called my sister to tell her to come to the hospital because our father was dying. Or the morning when I was at work and the nurse called to say Mom was actively dying. Strangely enough, this really does feel like all of those awful moments. Those moments when you know your life is forever changed.
I know we’ll come out the other side. I am confident of that. What I don’t know is who will be there with us. Or who will be there with you.
But we’re here now, right? Let’s try to keep moving forward together. Reach out to those you think about, even if they just cross your mind. Those little moments of acknowledgement matter.
So let’s be alone together. Just know that when this is over, I may be hugging you a whole heck of a lot.
Grief is the price we pay for love. Imagine a life where no payments come due!
Holly…oh no! I am so very sorry it has come to this, but knowing that you, Donna, Wes and Kenzie are safe is the most important thing. I do mourn the closing of the library, it is a lifeblood to so many people and the one place that they can absolutely get a smile, a how are you today, and as it says in “Cheers”, where everybody knows your name and they are all glad you came. You all inspire me every day with your smiles and cheerfulness (even if your world is falling apart). Be well and safe to all my dear library family. We’ll all be back there, if not sooner, than later. But for absolutely certain, we will all be back.
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